'Teenage girl, free to a good home': 15-year-old girl puts ad up to move out of parent's house after there's tension due to their divorce, they see the ad and ground her

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    AITA for putting up a “free to a good home” ad for myself on my social media?

    Mother grounding her teenage daughter
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    I'm 15F. My parents told me they were divorcing a month ago. It s ks, but things have been really weird around the house for a long
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    time so it kind of a relief that it was just divorce. They obviously hate each other and are trying
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    not to let me know it but like, they're not doing a good job.
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    Anyway I try to stay in my room as much as possible now because there's just this weird vibe and they act annoyed whenever I'm
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    around. I found out why last week. I went downstairs stairs to get a snack and I heard them arguing about who was going to
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    get custody of me, but like who has to take me. Neither one of them want custody. I turned around and went back to my
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    room because I didn't want to hear the rest of the argument and also because that really hurts and I didn't want to cry in the hallway.
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    Divorce papers and wedding rings
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    I couldn't stop thinking about it and I kept thinking about how they both have basically ignored me or seemed annoyed with me
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    for the last few months and how they must really hate me to be mad at each other over who has to take me after the divorce.
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    Friday, I was really upset about it and I got on my social and wrote an ad for myself, kind of like "Teenage girl, free to a good home, we're divorcing and need
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    to rehome our teenager as neither of us want her anymore. She doesn't eat much and does
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    laundry". I was trying to make it funny so maybe it wouldn't s k as much.
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    It caused a small sl.......m because it got back to other family members and some of my friends' parents who were worried
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    about me and called to find out what was going on and whether I was ok. My parents grounded me and told me that I upset everyone
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    for no reason and I should know better than to post things like that. They said of course they love me, things are tough right now. But I heard what they said. Idk, chat, am I TA?
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    Comicreliefnotreally NTA. As the adults, they need to know when and where to have private conversations. Sorry your
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    parents are morons and that you had to hear it (hopefully they really didn't mean it). Unfortunately, what you heard may stay with you for
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    Couple signing divorce papers
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    a long time (I remember convos I had 30 years ago). What's sad is they grounded you without seeming to ask
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    the question why you did what you did. Try to talk to them about what you heard and what you need. Divorces
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    are messy, that's no excuse for them to spew their mess on others. It's tough for them, they need to
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    remember their responsibility to you. Good luck!
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    Napalm Springs ΝΤΑ I sincerely hope they didn't actually mean what they said.

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